With everything that is taking over the world today- fear, poor economies, wars, more- it is important to have a place where we can all connect and feel that we are brothers and sisters once again. It was not long ago that everyone was able to get along and mingle without having to worry about how people viewed each other based on who we talked to, how we dressed, and what we “really meant” when we talked. We need to get back to that peace of mind where each person can be his or her own person, without having to worry about being politically correct. This is not saying that certain rules need be forgotten, as there are some that make life better for everyone, but maybe ease up on some of the unwritten rules that bind people so tightly that everyone starts acting and looking the same.
Much of the tension in the world today is caused by stereotypes. We all like to think that we do not fall victim to them, but in a way, even subconsciously, we do. There has to be a place where we can stop thinking about everything we do and say and just let loose for a little bit. There is- and it is the collective dance floor that we all shake it on. Whether it is in a club, a bar, at a wedding, or maybe just at work (yes, I dance at work), the dance floor is one place that we can let it all hang out and be ourselves.
Sure, there may be some people that judge how people dance, but for the most part- at least for me- I could really care less about what they think about my dance skills. I start to boogie because the song that came on is making me feel good and I want to have a little fun, so what if someone thinks I look a little goofy doing it? Dancing is not to make other people jealous, or to impress someone (ok, maybe sometimes it is to impress, in that case do the dice throw), it is to feel good about being you and letting loose. If we can all accept this fact, then the world may be a better place. I know that may sound a little cliché or optimistic, but it is true.
Music can make anyone feel good at one time or another and if you are really “feeling” the music (which is mostly controlled by the music and not the lyrics), ten you are going to start moving and grooving- at least a little bit. By this time you are feeling the rhythm and having a good old time, and it is not until later that you may realize that the song you are dancing to is an unfamiliar one, a different band, a different genre, a different language. Music can be such an amazing tool in bringing together friends and strangers and putting differences aside. The only this that we need to remember is to enjoy the song and try not to step on anyone’s toes. For example, this song really makes me like to shake my head and lightens my mood no matter how bad I am feeling at the moment; now just imagine a crowd of people feeling good and dancing. At that point it becomes difficult to remember why we fight...